Question: Is it possible to learn to be happy?
Answer: This is an extremely important question!
First of all it is important as you recognized that happiness doesn’t “come by itself”. And it is important because fortunately, yes, we can learn how to be happy, moreover we can learn how to become infinitely happy.
True happiness is a unique, positive, collective emotional impression that arises from unique, mutually supportive, mutually fulfilling Human relationships, where each person dissolves, disappears through one’s effort to unconditionally care only for others.
This selfless, altruistic care, service of others is completely against our intently self-serving, egocentric, hateful nature. This is why by default we constantly search for happiness, fulfillment only for ourselves. And this is why today Humanity is the most unhappy, empty, depressed and suicidal in our evolution. Our egoistic desire for happiness and fulfillment is the greatest, most intensive ever, but our instinctive egoism spoils every attempt to be happy, fulfilled.
This is why we need a special, purposeful and practical educational method within the right, purposeful, mutually committed environment, so we can mutually help each other rise above our internet nature, and find happiness above it, despite of it, inside one another.
Then through each other, for each other we can generate a never ending flow of happy energy that can perfectly, endlessly fulfill all of us.
Entering The Force-Field 