Question: What would be the one thing you’d be willing to give up just to be loved?
Answer: Myself.
True love is the completely selfless, unconditional fulfillment of the needs, desires of the other. In order to truly love another one needs to disappear, dissolve into the desires, needs, viewpoints of the other.
And only a “true lover” can expect the other to also love one with reciprocal, true love.
Entering The Force-Field 