Question: Is there truly no such thing as the right person? Answer: The “right person” is a process of development, when we “choose” someone and then gradually, mutually form, sculpt each other to become the right person for one another. I know that in Western societies we mostly look down on “arranged marriage”, especially as … More Finding Or Building Right Match?
Question: What is one thing you do that you don’t want anyone else to know about? Answer: Well, the question is a bit paradoxical, since you want us to tell something we do not want others to know, so probably what we will tell you/each other is not the truth, but perhaps something close to … More Secret Service
Question: Would one of the hardest lessons for a good person to learn in life, not to expect others act as you would? Why or why not? Answer: The answer is a resounding “yes”, and I also agree that this is one of the hardest lessons. By default we all perceive reality in a completely … More Seeing Reality Through The Eyes Of Others
Question: What are some tips for improving self perception? How can I learn to love myself? Answer: By default our perception of reality is completely egocentric, subjective. We are locked into a dark, limited cocoon where we sense only what our “personal computer” deems necessary for a simple, instinctive, day to day survival. Our own … More Loving Ourselves Through Loving Others
Question: What would you consider your “little slice of heaven” in life? Answer: “Heaven” usually depicts a place of harmony, balance, where different, seemingly diverse and incompatible elements, pieces beautifully complement one another like music from a well-conducted philharmonic orchestra. In our case this balance, harmony needs to unfold within the mutual Human connections we … More Mutual Slice Of Heaven
Question: What is the one thing that can make you instantly happy no matter what? Answer: The happiness of others, when others become happy as a result of my actions. By trying to give others unconditionally, caring for them, fulfilling them above any personal thoughts, calculations, we become similar to Nature’s single, fundamental, guiding principle: … More Unbounded Joy
Question: What is the best way to have an easy life without worrying about my basic needs? Answer: To enter an environment that is built on mutual guarantee. When we build a society where everybody only cares for unconditionally fulfilling the necessities of the others, above any personal, egoistic calculations, the ensuing mutual, reciprocal flow … More Carefree, Mutual Life
Question: What would you never give up for love? Answer: Love. I would give up anything for love, including myself, I would/could give up everything I have, but I can’t give up love. You see love is not a “one way street” it has to be mutual in order to work, to flow. Thus I … More Love For Love
Question: What situation in your life did you absolutely hate but then, as the time passed, have realized it had a good impact on your life and brought you to something greater? Answer: I think it was the realization after the “honeymoon” period, that in a marriage – when you tie your life to another … More Finding True Love
Question: What is the one thing that you would say to your pet but not to another human? Answer: I wish I could speak to my cat, as at the moment animals are still on a higher evolutionary level than we are. They are instinctively integrated into Nature, they (even our domesticated, manufactured pets) effortlessly … More Talking To A Cat
Entering The Force-Field 