Greatest Fear

Question: What are you afraid of most? Answer: It is a very good, important question. Fear is the most potent motivating force. In truth we are constantly “afraid”, fear something. And the origin, the purpose, intention of the fear changes, evolves as we ourselves develop. The most instinctive fear is fearing for our own health, … More Greatest Fear

Useful Envy

Question: Why do people want to be other people and are not happy with themselves? Answer: We can’t help it, we are “programmed” in such a way. Our inherently self-serving, self-justifying nature constantly measures itself to others in order to prove that it is better, higher, greater, richer, etc than others. Our political, marketing systems, … More Useful Envy

Choose Happiness By Choosing Your Environment

Question: If happiness is a state of mind, then why cannot everybody choose to be happy minded? Answer: We could say that happiness is a choice, although not a “direct choice”. Happiness is a result, a consequence, what we can choose is the process, state that leads to happiness. True happiness is a positive, joyful … More Choose Happiness By Choosing Your Environment

Educated Goal Setting

Question: What determines our status in life: success, happiness or health? Answer: We need an overall purpose in life. Without such a solid, final goal we have nothing to measure success, happiness against. And in order to make those measurements precise, we need a unique, “gold standard” purpose which is not something we invent for … More Educated Goal Setting

Regret The Regrets

Question: What can we do to make our life regretless? Answer: In order to make life “regretless” we should stop regretting anything. Regretting the past, regretting something that has already passed is the most wasteful action we can do. What has already happened is already engraved into history books, we have no free choice about … More Regret The Regrets