Question: What’s the best way to make peace with failing to achieve your dreams?
Answer: I wouldn’t give up on dreams, I would try to “adjust/refine” them.
First we need to understand we don’t live in a random, “disconnected” system where we can just invent dreams, goals for ourselves, as if we lived in isolation, having complete freedom of choice in our actions, plans.
Instead we exist in a closed, intricately organized and fully governed global, integral, natural system. This system is guided, driven by a single, “intelligent”, predetermined evolutionary plan.
We would need to study this plan, reveal our unique “cogwheel” role in it, and then we can gradually adjust, refine our dreams, aspirations so it matches the plan and its purpose for us.
Then all our dreams will come true.