Question: What are some things to give up if you want to take control of your life?
Answer: Although the answer might sound as a paradox, in order to take control of our lives, we have to give up ourselves.
All our problems originate from our inherently egocentric, self-serving, self-justifying, self-protective, introverted nature.
We are constantly sinking into our own whirlpool unless we find a way of pulling our unique Human observer out of the egoistic self through a unique, purposeful environment, using a special, practical method.
Then by dissolving into, becoming one with the collective, we can easily take control of our personal life.
Entering The Force-Field 