Fulfilling Expectations By Knowing What To Expect

Question: Why are expectations bad? Answer: Expectations are not bad at all. Without expectations, without projecting some expected future pleasure, reward ahead of ourselves we would not be able to move, progress. Or we would only progress by blows, difficulties, intolerable suffering pushing us from behind. In order to not to become disappointed, disillusioned by … More Fulfilling Expectations By Knowing What To Expect

The Only Skill Needed: Connection Building

Question: What is a skill that would make the world a better place if more people learned it? Answer: “Networking” – meaning building positive, sustainable, mutually responsible, mutually supportive and mutually complementing connections, cooperation. In a globally integrated and fully interdependent world this is the only skill that can offer problem solving ability and long-term … More The Only Skill Needed: Connection Building

Connecting To Nature’s Infinite Database

Question: What is one thing you know better than anyone else? Answer: There is nothing I know better than anyone. Knowledge, Wisdom is not ours anyway, what we think we have “in our heads” is misguided, egocentric, subjective illusion of knowledge. True knowledge, Wisdom resides in Nature’s perfect, unlimited database. So the question is who … More Connecting To Nature’s Infinite Database

Coming To An Objective Perception Of Reality

Question: Can we know objective reality? Answer: Only contrasts, comparative research can give us true attainment, recognition. Thus we need to reveal, recognize objective reality against, in contrast to subjective reality! This is of course not as simple as it sounds, since we are all born with an inherently self-centered, self-justifying, introverted and egoistic nature, … More Coming To An Objective Perception Of Reality

Ten Things To Know

Question: What are 10 things you should know before you turn 30? Answer: Who are you? What “are you made of”, what desires, intentions drive you? What is this world, Natural system we live in? What are the most important laws, principles of the world, system? What is the meaning of this life we live … More Ten Things To Know

Dealing With Negative Emotions – Dissolving Into Others

Question: Is there truly no positive way at all to deal with negative emotions? If there is, would that way be entirely hopeless as well? Answer: Wise people call the state when we give in, sink into negative emotions as “a fool sitting with his arms folded, consuming his own flesh”. The only way to … More Dealing With Negative Emotions – Dissolving Into Others

Influencing Our Luck

Question: What was your luckiest moment? Answer: On one hand basically every moment in our life is “lucky”, we have absolutely no control over what is happening – contrary to what we believe through our inherent proud, egoistic albeit misguided self-confidence. We are simply, blindly react to seemingly random factors, actions, influences through hormonal reactions … More Influencing Our Luck

Becoming More Rational – Through Collective Mind

Question: What can I do to force myself to be more rational (rather than emotional) when making decisions? Answer: I agree with you that by default our decision making is almost solely emotional. This is not surprising since we are primary emotional, sentient creatures driven by instincts, hormonal reactions, since our basic matter is the … More Becoming More Rational – Through Collective Mind