Question: When you look back at your life, and think you really did make a good life for your husband and children, then you can relax because it all turned out ok.? Answer: I think in that case indeed a wife can relax, or a husband achieving the same from his point of view. They … More Together On A Sinking Boat
Question: Why do people think our life is so worthless that they take their own life? Answer: While in most people it is not expressed consciously, we can exist without a positive purpose, expected pleasure pulling us forward. When we don’t see such expected pleasures ahead, for a while we can “travel back in time” … More The Need To Feel Needed
Question: What is the best advice you would offer someone trying to make their life into a success story from tragic circumstances? Answer: I would recommend them to find a positive, purposeful, mutually supportive and mutually complementing environment. All our values, goals, aspirations come from the environment, and we receive support and the tools to … More Rising With The Environment
Question: You are given the option to either eliminate all poverty or become a billionaire instantly and for life. Which do you choose? Answer: I think based on how our world turned out, even egoistically we can conclude that being a billionaire in a world that is still full of poverty, suffering is not good. … More “Sharing Is Caring”
Question: What’s the best mindset to have in life? Answer: We are all born with an exclusive mindset. Our inherently self-serving, self-justifying nature operates this exclusive mindset, subjective perception of reality, where only I am important and all the calculations are about my fulfilment, well-being. But this is not a good mindset for life in … More The Right Mindset
Question: Why did so many bad things happen to me in my life? Answer: In order to “repair a bad life” first we have to understand that we do not live alone, we are not isolated beings, but we all exist in a fully integrated, interdependent world. We can’t exist without other people, the quality … More The Lost Cogwheel
Question: Should we sacrifice today so that our children have a better tomorrow? Why do you think so? Answer: In a way yes. We have to sacrifice our inherently self-serving, self-justifying, egoistic and hateful nature in order to build a better future for everybody. Finally, today we have started to understand that there is only … More Self-Sacrifice
Question: What are some hard pills to swallow in life? Answer: The hardest pill is – as they so beautifully expressed in the movie “Cloud Atlas” – that our lives are not our own. We are all but individual cogwheels, individual cells in a vast, cosmic natural system, organism. Thus contrary to our default, proud, … More Hard Pill To Swallow
Question: Is life just one big competition? Answer: Yes it is. But in order to succeed we need to refine who we compete against and what we compete for. By default – driven by our inherently egoistic, hateful and greedy nature – we compete against one another, succeeding at the expense of others. By this … More Competing For One Another
Question: Have you ever felt that you are the bottleneck and that your decisions make or break your future? Answer: I can tell you even more. I am not only a bottleneck for my own progress, but my decisions, intentions, actions influence the whole world. That is one thing when our absolute responsibility for our … More Being A Bottleneck
Entering The Force-Field 