Question: If happiness is a state of mind, then why cannot everybody choose to be happy minded? Answer: We could say that happiness is a choice, although not a “direct choice”. Happiness is a result, a consequence, what we can choose is the process, state that leads to happiness. True happiness is a positive, joyful … More Choose Happiness By Choosing Your Environment
Question: How do I stop comparing myself and my life to someone who I adore? She has the exact opposite of my life, full of amazing positivity and happiness opposite of all of my awfulness. I cannot enjoy anything anymore. I can’t just “stop” for some reason. Answer: I think all you need is a … More Purposeful Comparisons
Question: Has anyone checked out on life, started again and found true purpose and meaning with new work, people and friends? Answer: I am not sure what “checked out in life” means. But we can enter a new environment, find a true purpose, work among new friends any moment. In fact a true Human purpose, … More Check In A New Environment
Question: Why do people think our life is so worthless that they take their own life? Answer: While in most people it is not expressed consciously, we can exist without a positive purpose, expected pleasure pulling us forward. When we don’t see such expected pleasures ahead, for a while we can “travel back in time” … More The Need To Feel Needed
Question: What is the best advice you would offer someone trying to make their life into a success story from tragic circumstances? Answer: I would recommend them to find a positive, purposeful, mutually supportive and mutually complementing environment. All our values, goals, aspirations come from the environment, and we receive support and the tools to … More Rising With The Environment
Question: Do we need others in our life? Answer: We could say that “we only need others in our life”. On my own I am nothing else but a small, fearful, instinctive animal that desperately tries to survive day to day in a hostile world. Or we could say that on our own we are … More Human Interdependence
Question: What would the world be better without? Answer: The world would be much better without the Human ego, that drives us towards ruthless, exclusive competition, success at the expense of one another, exploiting everything and everybody for our own selfish gains. But there is no way of getting rid of the ego, since the … More Dealing With The Ego
Question: Why did so many bad things happen to me in my life? Answer: In order to “repair a bad life” first we have to understand that we do not live alone, we are not isolated beings, but we all exist in a fully integrated, interdependent world. We can’t exist without other people, the quality … More The Lost Cogwheel
Question: Besides knowing they are loved, what else do kids need to know in order to feel happy, safe and confident? Answer: You are right, the first step is for the kids to feel themselves in a loving, caring environment, where they constantly feel safe, knowing that whatever happens it happens for their own good. … More Happy Children
Question: Is it normal to not have a passion? Answer: I don’t think it is a question of “normal” or “abnormal”. We are all “made of” the desire for pleasure, our while life is about searching for further, stronger, more spicy pleasures. This desire is like a candle, or a pilot light that needs igniting. … More Kindling The Passion
Entering The Force-Field 