Question: Why did so many bad things happen to me in my life?
Answer: In order to “repair a bad life” first we have to understand that we do not live alone, we are not isolated beings, but we all exist in a fully integrated, interdependent world. We can’t exist without other people, the quality of our relationship to others defines our life.
We are like individual cogwheels in this vast machinery. As long as our cogwheel is “out of place”, until we find our perfect complementary role in the right, purposeful environment, we will continue feeling “only bad things happening to us”.
Thus the solution is finding or building such a positive, mutually responsible and mutually complementing circle of friends or larger environment, where everybody can find their “cogwheel role”, where everybody can contribute to the wellbeing of the whole with their 100% ability while receiving everything they need for their comfortable, optimal existence.
Entering The Force-Field 