Question: Do you believe you can dig yourself out of any hole, metaphorically speaking?
Answer: I believe that I cannot! After all how can one pull oneself up by pulling one’s own hair?!
When we are in a real, deep hole – literally or metaphorically speaking – only others we can trust and are willing to help us can pull us out.
This is why “wise” people enter, build around themselves special, purposeful, mutually supportive, mutually complementing environments, that can help them in dire situations which will inevitably come in any person’s life.
Entering The Force-Field 