Question: What options does one have if the heart says one thing and the mind says another? Who wins? Answer: I think the state you describe is already a good state. Normally we are governed by our heart – in other words by our instinctive desires, that blindly dictate all our thoughts and goals – … More Riding The “Un-Rideable” Bull
Question: How aware are you of two different opposing “wolves” operating within your mind, one of which leads to pain and diminish the sense of life and the other to a joyous, meaningful, and fulfilling life? Answer: In order to become aware of the two wolves, moreover to keep that awareness, holding the two perception … More The Two Wolves
Question: What are the worst injustices most people will commit in their lives? Answer: As we can see from the events in the world, those injustices can take on many different forms. But at their root they originate from the same inherently self-serving, self-justifying and egoistic nature that drives all of us. It is this … More The Injustice Of The Ego Sinking The Boat
Question: Why do I need to live in this world? Answer: It is good to live in “this world” because from here, in contrast to “this world” we can learn how to enter and live in the “next world”. Living in “this world” means perceiving reality through our inherently selfish, egoistic and subjective qualities. So … More One World Against The Other
Question: Has anyone checked out on life, started again and found true purpose and meaning with new work, people and friends? Answer: I am not sure what “checked out in life” means. But we can enter a new environment, find a true purpose, work among new friends any moment. In fact a true Human purpose, … More Check In A New Environment
Question: What can I do today to make the world a better place? Answer: In order to make the world a better place, to correct, solve problems, first we need to know what is wrong with the world. By now we have enough experiences to conclude that we can’t change, correct the world through political, … More Changing The World
Question: You are given the power to make one person disappear forever. Nothing specific to this person will ever exist again, not even in memory. Who do you choose? Answer: My “self”. Nothing else but my ego, and its self-centered, self-justifying, introverted point of view that stands in between my “Human observer” and a perfect, … More Seeing Clearly Without The Ego
Question: When you look back at your life, and think you really did make a good life for your husband and children, then you can relax because it all turned out ok.? Answer: I think in that case indeed a wife can relax, or a husband achieving the same from his point of view. They … More Together On A Sinking Boat
Question: If you could give me one tip to help me improve my attitude, what would it be? Answer: I would say that it is already a very good sign that you feel that your attitude needs improving. After all we can heal only when we know that we are sick. The truth is that … More Attitude Change
Question: Does anyone actually feel completely satisfied with their life and wouldn’t change a thing? Answer: In a good way I would say, “I hope there aren’t many people who are completely satisfied and wouldn’t change a thing”. Although Hollywood movies, celebrity success stories try to suggest we can “make it” by reaching certain material … More Insatiable Desire
Entering The Force-Field 