Drawing All The Attention

Question: Can humans live without getting attention? Answer: It is a just question. By our inherently self-serving, self-justifying, egocentric and subjective nature we can’t live without drawing attention to ourselves. Basically we perceive reality with ourselves at its center, we instinctively, innocently believe that the world was created for our selves, where we deserve this … More Drawing All The Attention

Conditions For A Healthy Relationship

Question: What are the top 3 things that’s important to have to have a healthy relationship with your life partner? Answer: 1.Mutual self-annulment towards one another. 2. Selfless, unconditional service of the desires, needs of the other, by setting reality through the viewpoint of the other. 3. Special education, upbringing which can purposefully, methodically, practically … More Conditions For A Healthy Relationship

Avoiding Midlife Crisis

Question: Have you ever experienced a midlife crisis? Did you ever get out of it? Answer: I am 53 this year and I have experienced “midlife crisis” but fortunately only in a “shadowy” way, as if watching someone else going through it, sensing, feeling, observing the despair, helplessness, exploding new desires, panic to grab everything … More Avoiding Midlife Crisis

The Subjective Boundary Of Research

Question: What is the biggest obstacle one might face when entering a research field? Answer: The biggest obstacle we face in science, research is our own, inherently self-justifying, subjective, egoistic nature, perception. This is why we are utterly incapable of researching reality as it is, we have no chance to examine, attain the true “quantum” … More The Subjective Boundary Of Research

Searching For Absolute Truth/Falsehood

Question: What is the difference between truth and falsehood? Answer: At the moment this difference is in the “eye of the beholder”. Due to our inherently egocentric, self-serving, self-justifying and subjective nature we all define for ourselves what we consider “truth vs falsehood”. And it is true even to the “justice” courts, jury, state laws … More Searching For Absolute Truth/Falsehood

The Long Lasting Impression Of “First Love”

Question: How has the first love changed your life? Answer: It still provides me with a very tangible example about what “love” can do to the person. When we fall in love we lose our “normal”, usual anchors to life we are torn away from normal reason, intellect and start “levitating” towards the beloved person, … More The Long Lasting Impression Of “First Love”