Question: Why do many people think talking behind someone’s back is worse than saying bad things to one’s face? Answer: We can probably use the following example: when people speak behind each other’s back is like an undetected cancer that spreads, destroys but in the lack of proper diagnosis one can’t treat and cure it. … More Gossip Is Like Cancer, Good, Metastatizes, Destroys
Question: What is the most hurtful thing you have ever done to someone else? Answer: The most hurtful thing one can do to another is not accepting, reciprocating true love. True love is the deepest, most difficult and involving Human emotional state, when gives up one’s self completely in order to disappear into the other, … More Most Hurtful
Question: Why we would prefer to have nothing rather than an unfair share? What is the psychology behind it? Answer: I would refine the question saying, “Why we would prefer to have nothing, rather than an unfair share, if others know that we obtained that share unfairly?” We would prefer nothing to unfair share due … More Burning Shame
Question: Why do people ask for my advice then turn around and tell me never to try to help them again? Answer: It is because the state – where one needs to turn to another for help, advice -is already humiliating for our inherently self-justifying, proud, subjective ego. If the advice is good then the … More The Problematic “For” Advice
Question: What is the importance of making efforts in life? Answer: Our unique, proud, egocentric nature is created in such a way, that if we receive something without efforts, without “due payment”. then we feel intolerable shame as a result. Only efforts, making suitable work, payment for what we receive can erase this shame and … More Efforts In Order To Prevent Shame
Question: If you can choose 3 things that should be free for everyone what would they be? Answer: Actually I wouldn’t give anything for free. Our inherent nature – that makes constant egoistic, self-serving calculations – can’t appreciate anything that is free. A free gift that is not very worthy ends up lost, disregarded, “placed … More Shameful Free Lunch
Entering The Force-Field 