Question: Why do people want to be other people and are not happy with themselves? Answer: We can’t help it, we are “programmed” in such a way. Our inherently self-serving, self-justifying nature constantly measures itself to others in order to prove that it is better, higher, greater, richer, etc than others. Our political, marketing systems, … More Useful Envy
Question: Does maintaining a childlike personality make a person happier with their lives overall? As in smiling a lot, being intellectually curious, living in the moment, being creative and looking on the bright side. I’m not talking about being childish. Answer: Yes. Maintaining a “childlike attitude” – constantly being curious, ready to learn, ready to … More Like A Child
Question: How much do you value happiness? Answer: I value happiness as the most important notion, the purpose of our existence. We are “hardwired” to constantly search for, work for reaching happiness. Moreover in our “Human software” we are programmed in a way that we cannot find rest, satisfaction until we reach perfect, infinite happiness. … More Hardwired For Happiness
Question: Why is thinking about the past and future makes you a little anxious and depress? Thus when you think about the present, it makes you happy and appreciate life. Answer: Probably we equate the “present” with a temporary comfort zone, where we can rest, hide. Going back into the past or preparing for the … More Learning From The Past, In Order To Act Now, To Gain Confidence About The Future
Question: What do you need to live the kind of life you desire? Answer: In order to live a life we desire we need to learn what and how to desire. We exist in an absolutely perfect, “benevolent” Natural system that is full of abundance and it contains the blueprints, solutions for everything conceivable. But … More Desired Outcome
Question: What is something everyone believes but nobody talks about? Answer: I think by now we all feel, believe that in order to survive we will need to give up our prideful individualism and we will need to learn how to build unity, mutually responsible and mutually complementing cooperation above remaining differences and despite the … More Dangerous Avoidance
Question: Why do the things that we avoid the most or don’t expect to happen actually happen? Answer: I am not sure things are as black and white as you described, but probably you are not far from the truth. The reason is that we are incompatible with, opposite to the Natural system we exist … More Refining Expectations
Question: What is your aspect in life? Answer: My present aspect is lopsided, because I am stuck into an inherently selfish, egocentric and subjective point of view. And from this aspect the world looks broken, hostile, heading towards self-destruction. But wise people are telling me, that the world is not like that at all. The … More The Worm In The Bitter Radish
Question: Would you rather live a long life of playing it safe or live a short life of happiness and doing whatever you want? Answer: While it is a nice philosophical question, it is not realistic. We underestimate our nature, the engine that drives us. Our insatiable egoistic being, a “black hole-like” desire for pleasures … More No Deal
Question: According to your experience in life, what are the things that worry us the most but which in reality have little or no importance and which make us waste time, energy and pollute our lives? Answer: I apologize in advance, but instead of answering the question about what we should not waste our time … More Focus On What’s The Purpose
Entering The Force-Field 