What’s The Use Of Guilt, If We Aren’t Guilty?!

Question: Can guilt be a helpful/healthy emotion? When is guilt most/least helpful in your experience? Answer: First of all we would need to examine what the guilt is for. For example guilt presumes that the person is actually guilty, meaning had a free choice about one’s actions and purposefully, intentionally choose to commit a crime. … More What’s The Use Of Guilt, If We Aren’t Guilty?!

Free To Be Happy

Question: Can we be happy without being free? Answer: You are completely right! We can’t be happy without being free. The only question is: what do we need to be free from?! True happiness is a positive collective emotional impression that arises from purposefully built, mutually supportive, mutually complementing Human connections. And in order to … More Free To Be Happy

Now Or Never!

Question: Do you agree with the adage ‘do it now’? Answer: Yes. If not now, then when? If we can wait with any action, it means that we do not want it enough, we do not have the required need, necessity for that action. And since everything depends on the need, necessity, that actual action … More Now Or Never!

Through Paradox

Question: What is considered the hardest paradox to explain? Answer: I give you two: We are all born with a 100% egoistic, selfish, hateful and greedy ego that cannot be suppressed or deleted…BUT…we exist in a globally integrated and fully interdependent system that is based on selfless, altruistic interconnections, cooperation in order to maintain balance, … More Through Paradox

Success Through Trusting Others Instead Of Trusting Ourselves

Question: How can I learn to stop second guessing my instincts and learn to trust in myself? Answer: I apologize in advance for answering contrary to what you expect. I think we need to learn not to trust our instincts, not to trust our own mind and logic, and to completely place ourselves into the … More Success Through Trusting Others Instead Of Trusting Ourselves

Making Our Heart Sing

Question: Why do we avoid getting real with ourselves and discovering what would truly make our hearts sing? Answer: We are instinctively afraid of what we find “inside”. We suspect – although avoid to recognize – that we are all driven by an egoistic, selfish and hateful “monster” inside. Thus we collectively, shrewdly invented different … More Making Our Heart Sing