Question: What single characteristic is most important when searching for the love of your life? Answer: I think in order for people to connect they need at least a certain level of similarity in between them, they both need to accept, like one another externally, they need to have similar interests, values, goals in life, … More True Love
Question: Is not wanting something as good as having it? Answer: The question is very interesting, intriguing. In order to discuss it further, to refine an answer we need to know our inherent nature, how it works. Our “matter”, the engine that drives us is an overwhelming, insatiable desire for pleasures, fulfillment for ourselves. We … More Fulfilling An Insatiable Desire
Question: Would life be better if you could do whatever it is you want to do and what would that be? Answer: Your second question is the more important as it determines the answer to the first question. Whether it is good or bad if I do whatever I want depends solely on what I … More Wanting What’s Good For Us
Question: Why do we do things that we do not want to do? Answer: While I agree with you that superficially it seems that sometimes we do things we do not want to do, when we examine the question deeper, there is no such possibility. We are driven by a desire for pleasures, for self-fulfillment. … More The Manipulative Desire
Question: Does maintaining a childlike personality make a person happier with their lives overall? As in smiling a lot, being intellectually curious, living in the moment, being creative and looking on the bright side. I’m not talking about being childish. Answer: Yes. Maintaining a “childlike attitude” – constantly being curious, ready to learn, ready to … More Like A Child
Question: Would you rather live a long life of playing it safe or live a short life of happiness and doing whatever you want? Answer: While it is a nice philosophical question, it is not realistic. We underestimate our nature, the engine that drives us. Our insatiable egoistic being, a “black hole-like” desire for pleasures … More No Deal
Question: Why we are never truly satisfied? Answer: Our inherent “matter” is an insatiable, exponentially growing desire for pleasures. Today the larger part of Humanity lives in societies where we have more abundance available than kings used to have a few generations ago. Still we are becoming increasingly emptier, depressed, we turn to all kinds … More I Can Get No Satisfaction…But Together We Can
Question: Why I feel emotionless all the time I don’t feel mad, sad, nor happy how do I stop feeling this way (I’m not on any antidepressants nor do I have PTSD)? Answer: We are emotional creatures. But our emotions do not “originate” within ourselves. They are the result of our connection to other people, … More Awakening Emotions
Question: What options does one have if the heart says one thing and the mind says another? Who wins? Answer: I think the state you describe is already a good state. Normally we are governed by our heart – in other words by our instinctive desires, that blindly dictate all our thoughts and goals – … More Riding The “Un-Rideable” Bull
Entering The Force-Field 