Question: What’s one thing you do to help parents but not to benefit them at all but yourself? What is your story? Answer: I apologize for answering a more general, “negative” way, but the “shocking truth” is that we are utterly incapable of doing anything – even for our parents, children, lovers – if it … More Learning How To Act Selflessly, Unconditionally For Others Sake
Question: What changes occur or came to your life after your marriage? Answer: Marriage means a dramatic – one could say “brutal” – change in a person’s life. After all two inherently proudly egotistic, selfish, narcissistic and subjective people pledge to live together, make constant compromises, fundamentally change their lives in order to accommodate the … More The Significance Of Marriage
Question: Is marriage necessary in life? Why or why not? Answer: Yes, it is necessary. We can define marriage as a committed, “life long” partnership of two otherwise egotistic, individualistic people. Without such a mutually committed relationship we can never learn how to make true compromises and rise above our self-serving, self-justifying instincts. Without such … More The Covenant Of Marriage As A Tool Against Egoism
Question: Did you realize shortly after getting married that you had made a huge mistake? What did you do? Answer: Fortunately I didn’t. But I am not sure how would one immediately realize such a “mistake”? After all “true love”, “sustainable love” is not immediate, it is not the “love at first sight/hormonal infatuation” poets … More Building Love In Marriage
Question: What is one thing you regret in your relationship? Answer: I regret that my inherently egoistic, selfish and hateful nature still gets the better of me, and I believe my subjective perception that always shows a negative picture, negative judgement of others – even the loved ones – thus I keep hurting them, causing … More Perfect Relationship – Where “I” Don’t Exist…
Question: What was the last thing you were told that caused you to become speechless? Answer: That who I think “I” am is not me, but “I” am what I invest into others. My real “me” is not this instinctive, blind, egocentric creature that sees only its own subjective cocoon. My potential, real, Human self … More “I” Am Speechless…
Question: What was the best advice you received from your mom, which you may transfer for your kids? Answer: She always told me, “my son, the family is always first, but your family can’t survive on its own, thus you also have an equal responsibility towards correcting, helping the world, so your children can grow … More My Mother’s Advice
Question: How do you stop feeling guilt for bringing a child into the world that you know will die someday? Answer: It seems that in previous generations most people didn’t have such thoughts. Today more and more people start wondering about the meaning, purpose of life, why we are born and why we should be … More Bringing A Child Into A Better World
Question: What could I know or learn right now that will greatly benefit the rest of my life? Answer: In order to benefit for the rest of your life you world need to learn “integral education/upbringing. It teaches us the laws and principles of closed, fully integrated and interdependent Natural systems – which we exist … More The Best Education
Question: Who do you consider to be family? Answer: Beyond the obvious “blood relations” I would consider anybody as part of a family, who live in mutually integrated, mutually interdependent relationship with one another. Which makes the whole of Humanity one family in the global, integral world we have evolved into. We just need to … More Global Family
Entering The Force-Field 