Question: Have you experienced joy, after allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone? Answer: I would say that I felt true joy ONLY when I allowed myself to be vulnerable with others. Only when we break through the walls of self-protection, mutual distrust, rejection our inherently egoistic, hateful nature builds, can we start sensing true … More Breaking The Walls In Between Us
Question: How do I build self esteem as an adult? Answer: Since we are the product of our environment, since – despite being born with inherently self-serving, self-justifying nature – we still need the approval, respect from our environment, we can build a healthy self-esteem by entering the right, purposeful, mutually supportive and mutually complementing … More The High Self-Esteem Of Perfect Cogwheel
Question: What is one thing you regret in your relationship? Answer: I regret that my inherently egoistic, selfish and hateful nature still gets the better of me, and I believe my subjective perception that always shows a negative picture, negative judgement of others – even the loved ones – thus I keep hurting them, causing … More Perfect Relationship – Where “I” Don’t Exist…
Question: Why defer to others who tell us they know better than us what is the right thing to do? Answer: The problem is that we are all born with an inherently self-serving, self-justifying, egoistic and subjective nature. Thus none of us can find the right solutions on our own, as our egocentric, introverted calculations … More The Need For Objective Viewpoint
Question: What do adults struggle with that teenagers don’t know about? Answer: It is mostly the growing responsibility on their shoulder towards their families, work commitment, towards their society. Today in the fully integrated and interdependent world we can add to this our growing, mutual responsibility towards one another on a global scale, as we … More Great, Mutual Responsibility
Question: What’s a better saying than good luck in your future endeavors? Answer: I would borrow the famous line from Star Wars: “May the Force be with you!” And I am not meaning it jokingly. We exist in a closed, deterministic, lawful Natural system that is permeated and governed by a single, Natural, evolutionary force. … More “May The Force Be With You!”
Question: What is the best philosophy of life, to help us live “happy” or at least content, even though the world is chaotic and life’s inherently suffering? Answer: The right solution for this paradox – trying to be happy in a chaotic, crisis ridden world, which is of course impossible since we have become integrated, … More Happiness – Only Mutually, Together
Question: Why does it feel impossible and difficult to change myself and my life? Answer: Because it is truly impossible! Contrary to all “self-help”, “self-improvement” methods we can’t change ourselves. It would be like Baron Munchausen suggesting that one can lift oneself by pulling one’s own hair! If we want to change ourselves we need … More It’s Impossible To Change Ourselves, Unless…
Question: What motivates most people to do the right thing? Answer: We are very “simple creatures”. Our matter is a desire, the insatiable desire for pleasures, fulfillment. Our thoughts, actions run on a very precise, egocentric “pleasure/pain” software. Thus we are motivated to do anything by the next, attractive pleasure pulling us or by a … More The Right Motivation
Question: Is it truly possible to get out of your own head? Every conversation I have I’m stuck in my own mind and it creates a mental blockage to the point where I never know what to say. It has entirely taken over my life. Answer: You are right. Getting out of our own head … More Getting Out Of Our Own Head
Entering The Force-Field 