Question: Do you ever worry that certain characteristics intrinsic to the nature of your personality make you unworthy of happiness and love?
Answer: I worry about it constantly, especially as I know already, that my inherently selfish, egoistic, hateful characteristics are directly against meriting happiness and love!
True love is a state when I disappear in the beloved, only sensing the desires, needs of the beloved with the aim of fulfilling them perfectly, without any selfish, egoistic distortions, calculations.
And happiness is the “consequence”, the “jackpot” we merit when we succeeded in building Human connections based on true love.
So in order to be worthy of true love, happiness, first we need to learn how to rise above, act against our inherent nature!