Conditions For A Healthy Relationship

Question: What are the top 3 things that’s important to have to have a healthy relationship with your life partner? Answer: 1.Mutual self-annulment towards one another. 2. Selfless, unconditional service of the desires, needs of the other, by setting reality through the viewpoint of the other. 3. Special education, upbringing which can purposefully, methodically, practically … More Conditions For A Healthy Relationship

Avoiding Midlife Crisis

Question: Have you ever experienced a midlife crisis? Did you ever get out of it? Answer: I am 53 this year and I have experienced “midlife crisis” but fortunately only in a “shadowy” way, as if watching someone else going through it, sensing, feeling, observing the despair, helplessness, exploding new desires, panic to grab everything … More Avoiding Midlife Crisis

The Long Lasting Impression Of “First Love”

Question: How has the first love changed your life? Answer: It still provides me with a very tangible example about what “love” can do to the person. When we fall in love we lose our “normal”, usual anchors to life we are torn away from normal reason, intellect and start “levitating” towards the beloved person, … More The Long Lasting Impression Of “First Love”

Battling Depression

Question: How is it possible for friends to help someone battling a mental illness such as extreme depression or anxiety? Answer: First of all it is important to identify if the friend in question is suffering from clinical depression that needs proper, medical help, or the friend belongs to the growing masses of people in … More Battling Depression

The True Paradox

Question: What are some paradoxes that are actually true? Answer: Most of such paradoxes arise from our inherently egocentric, subjective perception. Driven by this perception we associate ourselves with our selfish, introverted egos, thinking that whatever we sense “outside of ourselves” is alien to us. But in truth it is the ego that is alien, … More The True Paradox

Life As Pilgrimage Towards Human Purpose

Question: What are the benefits of going on a pilgrimage? Answer: From Wikipedia: “A pilgrimage is a journey or search of moral or spiritual significance. Typically, it is a journey to a shrine or other location of importance to a person’s beliefs and faith, although sometimes it can be a metaphorical journey into someone’s own … More Life As Pilgrimage Towards Human Purpose