The love we keep talking, dreaming, singing, write poems about is “fish-love”, as in “I love fish because it tastes good, because it gives me pleasure”. So we “love” as long as this “love” is good for ourselves and the moment we do not receive selfish pleasures, fulfillment from it we can’t “love” any longer.
True love is something much deeper, it requires the complete annulment of the egoistic self.
True love – which is the copy of how Nature’s singular life giving force operates – is a totally selfless, unconditional service of another, when the person dissolves into the desires, needs, viewpoints of the other, existing only in order to fulfill them.
This is something we are incapable of achieving with our inherently selfish, egocentric and subjective nature. Only through a unique, purposeful and practical educational method in the right, closed environment can we acquire this “supernatural” – above instinctive nature – ability.
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