Question: Is there truly no positive way at all to deal with negative emotions? If there is, would that way be entirely hopeless as well? Answer: Wise people call the state when we give in, sink into negative emotions as “a fool sitting with his arms folded, consuming his own flesh”. The only way to … More Dealing With Negative Emotions – Dissolving Into Others
Question: Is there one memory that you use to compare what happiness is “supposed” to feel like to you? Answer: I try to use one “memory” I do not actively remember: being in the mother’s womb. There is no more perfect, blissful state than being instantly, perfectly unquestionably cared for without the need to ask. … More Building Society On The Best “Memory”
Question: Did you realize shortly after getting married that you had made a huge mistake? What did you do? Answer: Fortunately I didn’t. But I am not sure how would one immediately realize such a “mistake”? After all “true love”, “sustainable love” is not immediate, it is not the “love at first sight/hormonal infatuation” poets … More Building Love In Marriage
Question: Have you experienced joy, after allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone? Answer: I would say that I felt true joy ONLY when I allowed myself to be vulnerable with others. Only when we break through the walls of self-protection, mutual distrust, rejection our inherently egoistic, hateful nature builds, can we start sensing true … More Breaking The Walls In Between Us
Question: What is one thing you regret in your relationship? Answer: I regret that my inherently egoistic, selfish and hateful nature still gets the better of me, and I believe my subjective perception that always shows a negative picture, negative judgement of others – even the loved ones – thus I keep hurting them, causing … More Perfect Relationship – Where “I” Don’t Exist…
Question: What is the best philosophy of life, to help us live “happy” or at least content, even though the world is chaotic and life’s inherently suffering? Answer: The right solution for this paradox – trying to be happy in a chaotic, crisis ridden world, which is of course impossible since we have become integrated, … More Happiness – Only Mutually, Together
Question: Can you become rich if you make 100k a year? Answer: It always depends on what we consider “being rich”. As the saying goes “rich is one who is happy with what one has”. It means that if we have enough to cover our modern, healthy, natural necessities for ourselves and for our family, … More Rich Is The Person Who Is Happy With What One Has
Question: What makes the rich happy and the poor frightened? Answer: First of all I am not sure about your statement. This might be true in Hollywood and in women magazines, but it does not seem to reflect true life. Do you see the “rich and famous” surrounded by their armed bodyguards, constantly worrying about … More Who Is Happier, The Poor Or The Rich?
Question: What are some steps to true happiness that everyone is looking for? Answer: Since “true happiness” is not something personal, but it is a unique, collective emotional impression, “contentment” that arises from positive, purposefully built, mutually supportive and mutually fulfilling Human connections, the steps we need to take for “true happiness” are steps that … More Steps Leading To Happiness
Question: Is it possible to believe you can have everything but also live without ego? Answer: Well, yes and no. We can’t live without the ego as the ego is all we have. But we can learn how to live without using the ego, as if “rising above it”, working against it. Or as wise … More Having Everything Without The Ego
Entering The Force-Field 