Avoiding Midlife Crisis

Question: Have you ever experienced a midlife crisis? Did you ever get out of it? Answer: I am 53 this year and I have experienced “midlife crisis” but fortunately only in a “shadowy” way, as if watching someone else going through it, sensing, feeling, observing the despair, helplessness, exploding new desires, panic to grab everything … More Avoiding Midlife Crisis

“There Is No Righteous In The Land Who Hasn’t Sinned…”

Question: Would life be more boring without crime? Answer: Yes, since our whole life experience, perception, recognition unfolds through contrast, comparative research. Thus without crime we would not know what justice, honesty is, without hate we would never know what love is. This is why we Humans are all born as “criminals” – driven by … More “There Is No Righteous In The Land Who Hasn’t Sinned…”

We Need To Learn What Truly Good Intentions Are Before We Want To Do Good…

Question: Why would a do gooder do more harm to than good? Answer: Because that person would do good according one’s own egotistic, subjective calculations. At the moment – by default – none of us are capable of making calculations, decisions, intention for any other goal, but to benefit ourselves in any possible way. And … More We Need To Learn What Truly Good Intentions Are Before We Want To Do Good…

Gossip Is Like Cancer, Good, Metastatizes, Destroys

Question: Why do many people think talking behind someone’s back is worse than saying bad things to one’s face? Answer: We can probably use the following example: when people speak behind each other’s back is like an undetected cancer that spreads, destroys but in the lack of proper diagnosis one can’t treat and cure it. … More Gossip Is Like Cancer, Good, Metastatizes, Destroys

Learning How To Act Selflessly, Unconditionally For Others Sake

Question: What’s one thing you do to help parents but not to benefit them at all but yourself? What is your story? Answer: I apologize for answering a more general, “negative” way, but the “shocking truth” is that we are utterly incapable of doing anything – even for our parents, children, lovers – if it … More Learning How To Act Selflessly, Unconditionally For Others Sake