Question: What changes occur or came to your life after your marriage? Answer: Marriage means a dramatic – one could say “brutal” – change in a person’s life. After all two inherently proudly egotistic, selfish, narcissistic and subjective people pledge to live together, make constant compromises, fundamentally change their lives in order to accommodate the … More The Significance Of Marriage
Question: Who would you classify as the “Alpha” amongst the people you know? Answer: Due to our inherently self-justifying, proudly individualistic, egotistic nature we all consider ourselves Alpha, higher than others, and as a result we also respect, envy those who openly show this exuding self-confidence, superiority. But since we exist in a fully integrated … More How To Become A Real Alpha
Question: What’s the best, cleverest and most meaningful quotation or motto you have ever heard? Answer: The wisest, most meaningful and most important – not to mention most practical – quote, motto I have ever heard is “Love your neighbor as yourself”. And this is also the most misunderstood one. Although there is no religion, … More The Deepest, Natural Wisdom
Question: What was the best piece of advice you ever received? How did it change your outlook/life? Answer: “Do not look for fulfillment, happiness in yourself, but work for, facilitate fulfillment, happiness in others!” This has changed my consciousness, perception of reality from a very limited, transient, egocentric, subjective, hopeless one to an infinite, eternal, … More Best Advice: Forget About Yourself!
Question: When does “listening” really matter? Answer: Listening really matters when we listen with the intention to hear and feel. Listening becomes useful when we listen with a true intent, wanting to sense, taste the desires, needs and viewpoints of others. Through such a purposeful listening we can actually penetrate into those desires, needs and … More Good Listening
Question: We are brought up, educated to they’ve towards individual freedom, independence, persual happiness, and by our generation we have become the most independent, free than ever. Still we are the most empty, aimless, depressed generation – especially considering our open opportunities – in Human history! How is this possible?! Answer: It is true that … More True Independence
Question: What is a simple thing you can do to make the people around you a bit happier? Answer: Since “true happiness” is a positive, collective emotional impression that arises from purposefully built, mutually supportive, mutually fulfilling Human connections, in order to make people happier we need to help them build such interconnections with each … More How Can We “Have The Cake And Eat It” Too?
Question: Are you more content with your life now than when you were younger? Answer: I would say yes, but the contentment I feel now (I am 53) and the contentment I felt in my twenties for example is hardly comparable. I could say that when I was younger my contentment was mostly quantitative, how … More Infinite Contentment Through Fulfilling Others
Question: What saying have you been butchering for years and just realized it? Answer: I have been butchering, Humanity has been butchering the saying “Love your neighbor as yourself” for a very long time. But it turns out that this principle is not some mystical, religious dogma, it is not a New Age slogan, or … More Love Your Neighbor…
Question: Can someone who is misanthropic desire to see growth in others, or desire a path in life that helps people? Answer: Very important question! First of all by nature we are all “misanthropic”, as we are all born with an inherently self-serving, self-loving, self-justifying, egotistic and hateful nature. Some people recognized this already, some … More Reforming The Misanthrope
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