Category: self-annulment

The Covenant Of Marriage As A Tool Against Egoism

May 20, 2019

Question: Is marriage necessary in life? Why or why not? Answer: Yes, it is necessary. We can define marriage as a committed, “life long” partnership of two otherwise egotistic, individualistic people. Without such a mutually committed relationship we can never learn how to make true compromises and rise above our self-serving, self-justifying instincts. Without such … More The Covenant Of Marriage As A Tool Against Egoism

True Wisdom

May 16, 2019

Question: How do you recognize true wisdom? Answer: True Wisdom doesn’t belong to anybody. It is Nature’s infinite wisdom that we can attain, “download” when we – in a unique, mutually supportive, mutually complementing environment – empty ourselves of our own previously accumulated, egocentric, subjective knowledge. For this attainment we have to become similar to … More True Wisdom

Good Listening

May 10, 2019

Question: When does “listening” really matter? Answer: Listening really matters when we listen with the intention to hear and feel. Listening becomes useful when we listen with a true intent, wanting to sense, taste the desires, needs and viewpoints of others. Through such a purposeful listening we can actually penetrate into those desires, needs and … More Good Listening

Making Others More Important, Than Myself

May 3, 2019

Question: Why are other people not more important than yourself? Answer: Because we are 100% egoists, we are all born with a fully self-serving, self-justifying, subjective nature, that is incapable of making calculations for anybody, anything else but the self. If we haven’t recognized this about ourselves we haven’t been in a dramatic, sharp situation … More Making Others More Important, Than Myself

Dealing With Negative Emotions – Dissolving Into Others

April 21, 2019

Question: Is there truly no positive way at all to deal with negative emotions? If there is, would that way be entirely hopeless as well? Answer: Wise people call the state when we give in, sink into negative emotions as “a fool sitting with his arms folded, consuming his own flesh”. The only way to … More Dealing With Negative Emotions – Dissolving Into Others

Only A Selfish Egoist, That Knows Oneself Can Strive To Become Selfless!

April 12, 2019

Question: Why don’t people acknowledge the need to be selfless? Answer: Because such a notion does not exist in our original operating software. Even if we say, write, repeat the word “selfless” we do not actually comprehend it! We are born with a 100% self-serving, self-justifying, egoistic and subjective nature. All our calculations return to … More Only A Selfish Egoist, That Knows Oneself Can Strive To Become Selfless!