Perfect Relationship – Where “I” Don’t Exist…

Question: What is one thing you regret in your relationship? Answer: I regret that my inherently egoistic, selfish and hateful nature still gets the better of me, and I believe my subjective perception that always shows a negative picture, negative judgement of others – even the loved ones – thus I keep hurting them, causing … More Perfect Relationship – Where “I” Don’t Exist…

Enjoying The Eternal Moment…

Question: How do you “enjoy the moment”? Answer: We can “enjoy the moment” by rising above the subjective coordinates of time, space and motion, making the “present moment” eternal and infinite. This happens by exciting our inherently self-serving, self-justifying, egoistic and subjective consciousness and perception, by living through the desires, needs and viewpoints of others … More Enjoying The Eternal Moment…

Love To Be Loved

Question: What would be the one thing you’d be willing to give up just to be loved? Answer: Myself. True love is the completely selfless, unconditional fulfillment of the needs, desires of the other. In order to truly love another one needs to disappear, dissolve into the desires, needs, viewpoints of the other. And only … More Love To Be Loved

Being Selfish

Question: Why is it bad to be selfish? Answer: It is not “bad”, we can’t be in any other way as we are born with an inherently self-serving, self-justifying, egoistic and subjective nature. Thus we had no free choice about the ego we were born with. On the other hand if we remain in our … More Being Selfish

Controlling Life

Question: What are some things to give up if you want to take control of your life? Answer: Although the answer might sound as a paradox, in order to take control of our lives, we have to give up ourselves. All our problems originate from our inherently egocentric, self-serving, self-justifying, self-protective, introverted nature. We are … More Controlling Life

Something Mind Blowing…

Question: Can you tell me something that will blow my mind? Answer: “You” are not you. What “you” see around “yourself” considering others, the world, that is You. What “you” consider “you” by default is only a subjective starting point, contrast, which “you” can develop into an independent observer that can start researching, discovering, then … More Something Mind Blowing…

Ego-Less Immortality

Question: If you were immortal to aging and disease, what would you fear the most on Earth or in the Universe? Answer: My own ego. Without this ego anchoring us to a self-serving, self-justifying, subjective “Matrix” with its distorted coordinate system – that is built on perceiving time, space and physical motion – we would … More Ego-Less Immortality