Emotional Beings

Question: Emotions or logic first? Answer: We can philosophize about which one we “want to choose”, but in truth we do not have a choice: we are sentient, emotional creatures. Our basic matter is a desire for selfish pleasures, our operating software works on an egocentric “pleasure/pain principle”. Our consciousness, perception of reality is based … More Emotional Beings

The High Self-Esteem Of Perfect Cogwheel

Question: How do I build self esteem as an adult? Answer: Since we are the product of our environment, since – despite being born with inherently self-serving, self-justifying nature – we still need the approval, respect from our environment, we can build a healthy self-esteem by entering the right, purposeful, mutually supportive and mutually complementing … More The High Self-Esteem Of Perfect Cogwheel

It’s Impossible To Change Ourselves, Unless…

Question: Why does it feel impossible and difficult to change myself and my life? Answer: Because it is truly impossible! Contrary to all “self-help”, “self-improvement” methods we can’t change ourselves. It would be like Baron Munchausen suggesting that one can lift oneself by pulling one’s own hair! If we want to change ourselves we need … More It’s Impossible To Change Ourselves, Unless…

Ready To Become Human

Question: How would you describe the world today in one sentence? Why? Answer: As a result of finally revealing the instinctively selfish, hateful and subjective ego behind all of our problems finally we are ready for the next, fully conscious phase of Human evolution: outside of, above ourselves, only for the sake of others.

Love To Be Loved

Question: What would be the one thing you’d be willing to give up just to be loved? Answer: Myself. True love is the completely selfless, unconditional fulfillment of the needs, desires of the other. In order to truly love another one needs to disappear, dissolve into the desires, needs, viewpoints of the other. And only … More Love To Be Loved

Perception Is Reality

Question: Does perception precede reality; and is reality made up of our thoughts? Answer: From our point of view perception is reality, since our reality is what we perceive in our inherently egocentric, subjective way. We can’t even say if there is a reality “outside of us” as we live completely inside ourselves. And this … More Perception Is Reality

Learning To Ride Evolution’s Relentless Wave

Question: Why are there controversies over who really invented telephones first e.i. Meucci, Bell, Manzetti, etc.? Answer: This story is a very good example about how we look at history and how it actually unfolds. Driven by our inherently proud, individualistic, self-justifying nature we like to look at History as a chain of events great … More Learning To Ride Evolution’s Relentless Wave