Question: How come getting what we need is more painful than getting what we want in life? Answer: Because getting what we want agrees with our selfish, egocentric and subjective nature, getting what we want is instinctive, easy. Getting what we need is sometimes against what our inherent, instinctive nature wants. Since we are completely … More Learning To Want What We Need
Question: How can I learn to stop second guessing my instincts and learn to trust in myself? Answer: I apologize in advance for answering contrary to what you expect. I think we need to learn not to trust our instincts, not to trust our own mind and logic, and to completely place ourselves into the … More Success Through Trusting Others Instead Of Trusting Ourselves
Question: What is one small thing everyone could do to have a massive impact on the world? Answer: As wise, empirical scientists – who managed to fully map and attain the intricate system of Natural reality, with its intelligent evolutionary plan and all of its cause and effect processes – teach, “changing the world” means … More Looking Into The Magic Mirror
Question: What is something about your partner that you cannot stand? Answer: After 28 years of marriage I think I am “wise” enough not to answer the question directly. Instead I will regretfully “chicken out” from a direct answer, and give a “roundabout”, general answer instead, which answer might be helpful to others as well. … More Judging Through Love
Question: Do you think it is wise to always trust your gut feeling? And why or why not? Answer: Our “gut feeling” represents our instinctive, “animate” survival reflex. It is supposed to serve us only in the “wild”, where individual, personal survival is necessary. But this instinctive “gut feeling” is actually working against us in … More Rising Above “Gut Feeling”…
Question: Would you rather have a rewind button or a pause button on your life? Answer: Personally I would choose the “pause button”. While imagining what we could do with the “rewind button” is nice, but in reality it is impossible to go back in time. Moreover as we start studying the practical, scientific method … More Using The “Pause Button” Wisely
Question: Are you alive or just suriving? Answer: By default we are all simply surviving, languishing. We are blindly chasing our day to day fulfillment through the usual, “animate” (food, sex, family) and “social” (wealth, power, knowledge) desires. This is not a “truly Human” life yet. In order to become alive as “fully fledged” Human … More Becoming Alive
Question: If you had the chance to save 1,000 people’s lives knowing that you would die in the process, and no one would know it was you who saved them, would you do it? Answer: My answer to this question might sound “cold”, calculating, but it is based on the precise knowledge of our underlying … More Precise Calculations
Question: Is it true that humans are born without instincts? Answer: Not at all. We are just as instinctive by default as other animals, except that we are “worse”, because our Human instincts are completely self-serving, egoistic, exploitative, thus instinctively we behave like cancer in Nature’s fully integrated and interdependent cosmic system. But this gives … More Rising Above Human Instincts
Entering The Force-Field 