Question: What are the three things everyone needs to do in order to succeed in impossible circumstances? Answer: To have an overall, final goal, purpose in life that keeps shining in front of one’s eyes, pulling one forward in any circumstances To have a purposeful, mutually supportive and mutually complementing environment around oneself that keeps … More Escaping From Prison…
Question: Was there a time you had to do something that you had said before that you would never do? Answer: Well, I think anybody who has been living in a marriage for a long time had to go through such “turnarounds”… When we find ourselves in closed, mutually interdependent relationships, environments, most of the … More Eating Humble Pie
Question: If I think I’m right and you think I’m wrong; and you think you’re right and I think you’re wrong – how do we determine the truth? Answer: This is a beautiful question revealing our greatest problem in life while pointing towards the only solution. Indeed we are all born with an inherently self-centered, … More How Can Warring Pirates Survive On The Same Boat?
Question: I am satisfied in everything except relationships. How could that be? Answer: Building the right connections, relationship to others is the most difficult thing in the world. We are all born with an inherently self-centered, self-justifying, egoistic and subjective nature. With the help of this nature – if we are strong, skillful enough – … More The Difficulty In Building Relationships
Question: How do you deal with the extra difficult things that happen in your life? Answer: I try to solve them within a special, mutually supportive and mutually complementing environment. Only in such environment do we have the strength, confidence to even attempt dealing with extra difficult things. Only in such environment do the others … More Coping With Difficulties
Question: How can I be more valuable to my job? Answer: We all have to look at ourselves as cogwheels in a fully integrated and interdependent system. Then it does not matter where we are, what job we are doing, in what position we are, whether we are a big, shiny, “all important”, or just … More Valuable Cogwheel
Question: What’s one thing that should never be forgotten? Answer: We mustn’t forget, that “we are never alone”. And it is not enough that we are never alone, but we are inevitably interlocked into a completely integrated and fully interdependent system. “Globalization” is not man-made, we had to evolve into this “Global Village” in order … More Inevitably Tied Together
Question: What is your biggest paradox? Answer: “If I am not for myself who is, but if I am only for myself, who am I? We are born with an inherently self-protecting, self-catering, self-justing nature. There is nothing wrong with this, it is part of the natural “survival reflex”. On the other hand we evolved … More The Paradox Of Global Human Existence
Question: What is one thing I can do that I probably don’t do already, every day, that will make me feel like a better person? Answer: Well, I do not know you, I have no idea what you do or do not do already. Still I think it is safe to assume that you are … More Building Mutual Guarantee
Question: What is the most important skill in life? Answer: The most important skill in life is “networking”, building positive, mutually supportive and mutually complementing connections in between people. We evolved into a globally integrated and fully interdependent world. This “global village” is not man-made, we “had to” reach this stage according to Nature’s intelligent … More Skillful Networking
Entering The Force-Field 