Question: Which experience made you realize that love is not fair? Answer: Probably I thought so in my late teenage years when I was mostly unsuccessful with my choices of girlfriends, as they always ended up choosing someone else instead of me. But then later – when I started to study a very unique, empirical, … More The Unfair Love Of A Selfish Lover
Question: What are the initial steps that someone could begin taking to start caring more about others than themselves? Answer: This is a very important question, since in today’s globally integrated and fully interdependent world we won’t be able to solve problems and survive unless we learn how to mutually care more about others, how … More Learning To Care About Others
Question: What can you can teach me in one sentence that most people don’t know? Answer: Our purpose in life is not to fulfill ourselves with limited, selfish, instinctive pleasures in between involuntary birth and death, but to selflessly, unconditionally fulfill others and sense an infinite, eternal existence through their pleasure.
Question: Who do you serve and how do you serve this entity or group? Answer: I think everybody feels that they are serving someone, someones or something. We have already figured out through Human development – that although our inherently selfish, egoistic and greedy nature wants to be served all the time – in order … More Serving In Order To Serve
Question: What is best way to get someone to move out of your house? Answer: Try showering them with absolute, unconditional love and service, regardless of their behaviour, reaction. Such a “perfect, true love” – even if played artificially – effects people like a shock, like a tsunami sweeping then off their feet. When someone … More “Scary” Perfect Love
Question: If we want to live a good life, what principles/knowledge should we know, or you suggest that we should know? Answer: In order to live a “good life” the most important principle we need to know is that – contrary to what our proudly individualistic nature tells us – we are not individual, isolated … More Living A Good Life
Question: What are some hidden pleasures in life? Answer: We could say that we are not even scratching the surface when it comes to pleasures in life. While we are blindly chasing and fulfilling pleasures for our instinctive “animate” ( food, sex, family) and “social” (wealth, power, knowledge) desires, we are like children collecting little, … More The Pleasures Hidden In Serving Others
Question: How would it change your life if your only motivation was love? Answer: It would change my life “upside down”, or “head over heels” as popular language expresses. Only love is capable of making us do things above, outside of self-interest, seemingly sacrificing ourselves for another. When I experience “true love” – solely existing … More Motivated By Love
Question: If you could pay somebody to do something for you for the rest of your life, what would it be? Answer: I would “buy myself a Friend”. I know this sounds strange but I am not talking about an “ordinary Friend or Friends”. I am talking about someone who is willing to “sign” mutual … More Buying A Friend
Question: What is something you have that you never thought you would? Answer: An honest concern for others, which concern is sometimes greater than my instinctive self-concern. I mean we all have a romantic idea that we feel for others, we want to care for others, and after all I am a doctor so even … More Caring For Others Above Nature
Entering The Force-Field 