Listening To Others In Order To Escape Ourselves

Question: How important is it to listen to others? Answer: It is very important. We have to reach a state where we start perceiving reality through the desires, needs, viewpoints of others in order to escape our inherently egocentric, self-serving, self-justifying and subjective cocoons. Only through others can we escape from our “selves” and thus … More Listening To Others In Order To Escape Ourselves

To Make A Mistake, Commit A Crime, We Have To Have Free Choice First!

Question: They say there are no mistakes in life; does that mean our life is already predestined? Answer: A “mistake” means that we have multiple options to choose from and we accidentally choose the wrong options. If everything is predetermined and we have absolutely no choice in life, we can’t make mistakes or commit crimes … More To Make A Mistake, Commit A Crime, We Have To Have Free Choice First!

Living Forever Through Others

Question: Would you rather have yourself or your loved ones live forever? Answer: The answer depends on our actual perception of reality. As long as we still instinctively live within our own, inherently egocentric, self-justifying, subjective cocoons, we calculate everything according to our own survival, personal benefit. So by default, honestly we would all choose … More Living Forever Through Others

Love Above All

Question: What comes first, health, wealth or love? Answer: Love – meaning “true love”. “True love” is very different from the “love” we define in our usual life. The usual “love” is also called “fish-love” – meaning “I love fish because it tastes good”. Thus the instinctive love we feel, we sing, write, dream about … More Love Above All

The Life Giving Ability Of Human Connection

Question: What changes have you made to improve your life that you would suggest to others? Answer: According to our inherently self-serving, self-justifying and subjective nature we tend to try succeeding in life on our own. We are also brought up, educated to be individual heroes, pioneers. Our view on history is focusing on the … More The Life Giving Ability Of Human Connection

Infinite Flow Of Natural Pleasure

Question: What is the one thing that will bring more satisfaction and contentment in my life? Answer: Since our original “operating software” is written on a selfish, egocentric “pleasure/pain” principle it is difficult to see or accept, but true satisfaction, contentment comes from selflessly, unconditionally serving, fulfilling others. When we build special, mutual connections built … More Infinite Flow Of Natural Pleasure

Perfect Marriage

Question: What marriage values and principles are the most important to you? Answer: I think this is expressed most beautifully in the phrase, “Husband, Wife and the Divinity in between them”. A marriage is the most difficult thing in life. After all two, inherently proud, individualistic, 100% egotistic people make a pledge to stay together … More Perfect Marriage