Question: Why do people ask for my advice then turn around and tell me never to try to help them again? Answer: It is because the state – where one needs to turn to another for help, advice -is already humiliating for our inherently self-justifying, proud, subjective ego. If the advice is good then the … More The Problematic “For” Advice
Question: What is one habit you try to do every day? Answer: The one habit I try to keep every day is to escape my own inherently egoistic, subjective mind and logic and to accept the reason and viewpoint of others. Only in this way can I exit my inherently dark, introverted, self-serving cocoon and … More A Good Habit
Question: What seemingly small thing has someone said to you that changed your life? Answer: “Your life is not your own”. I can’t say it any more beautifully as it was said in the movie, “Cloud Atlas”: “Our lives are not our own. We are bound to others, past and present, and by each crime … More Our Life Is Not Our Own
Question: Are you a bad person if you secretly get pleasure out of other people’s failures? Answer: We can call this by any name we want, but in truth we are all like this. As a result of our inherently self-serving, self-justifying and greedy nature we all cherish ruthless, exclusive, exploitative competition, succeeding at the … More Curing “Schadenfreude”
Question: Was there a time you had to do something that you had said before that you would never do? Answer: Well, I think anybody who has been living in a marriage for a long time had to go through such “turnarounds”… When we find ourselves in closed, mutually interdependent relationships, environments, most of the … More Eating Humble Pie
Question: What are your 10 laws of manhood? Answer: I had to look up the definition of “manhood” and Wiktionary gave me the definition of “The state of being man as a human being” as the primary answer. Kabbalists define “Human” – based on its Hebrew origin – as “similar”. A Human being is one … More Law Of “Manhood”
Question: What do you imagine retirement will be like for you? Answer: I can’t imagine such a state, as I can’t imagine “going on Holiday” either. I mean I go on Holiday with the family, I do different things than usual, but it does not stop me to continue probing, searching, learning, providing… I can’t … More No Need For Retirement
Question: If I saw through your eyes for a day, what would I see? Answer: You see this is very interesting and intriguing! If you saw through my eyes right now you would just see my own introverted, selfish, egocentric reality, “World according to Zsolt”. But if you saw reality through my eyes while I … More Seeing Through Each Other’s Eyes
Question: What is one small thing everyone could do to have a massive impact on the world? Answer: As wise, empirical scientists – who managed to fully map and attain the intricate system of Natural reality, with its intelligent evolutionary plan and all of its cause and effect processes – teach, “changing the world” means … More Looking Into The Magic Mirror
Question: Is human interaction always driven by self-interest? Answer: Instinctively yes. We are all born with a completely self-serving, self-justifying, self-protecting and subjective nature. We cannot make any other calculations but for our own sake, regardless of the circumstances. This inherent nature – which by the way is neither evil or sinful since we are … More Driven By Self-Interest
Entering The Force-Field 