Question: If we continue to compare our lives to those who appear to have more does it negatively impact our mentality? Answer: Not necessarily. First of all we can’t help comparing ourselves to others. We are all born with an egocentric, self-justifying, competitive nature. It is much more important to us whether we have more … More Comparing Ourselves To Others
Question: What are some double edged truths of life? Answer: The most important double edged truth in life is the following: I was born a selfish egoist, I am a selfish egoist and I can never be anything else but a selfish egoist. But if I live as a selfish egoist without some unique adjustment, … More The Double Edged Truth
Question: Is doing the right thing harder than doing the wrong thing or is doing the wrong thing easier than doing the right thing? Answer: The answer depends on what we consider “right or wrong”. If we measure things from our inherently self-centered, self-justifying, subjective point of view – sweet our bitter for ourselves – … More Right Or Wrong? From What Viewpoint?!
Question: If you haven’t accomplished much in your life and you are surrounded with successful people what is the best way to not seethe with rage and envy? Answer: Envy is good! If the society is set up properly, and those other, successful people use their talents, achievements in a good, positive helpful way, then … More Positive Envy For Progress
Question: Would you rather never feel sad again? Or win 20 million dollars? Answer: In order to understand the answer we need to know how we perceive reality. We perceive reality, research, attain anything through contrasts. Whatever we reveal we reveal it against its opposite. If we did not perceive darkness we would not know … More Perceiving Reality In Contrasts
Question: How can I compensate the fact that I was born with zero advantages in life? All of my hard work, efforts and dreams amount to nothing compared to a rich kid’s luck. Answer: I understand your frustration, and if we measure things in the context of the values, aspirations our present society provides, you … More Purpose In Life – The Great Equalizer
Question: Have you ever led a double life? If so when and how? Answer: I haven’t led a double life as we usually consider it. On the other hand we are required to learn how to life a “double life”, that can give us a completely new outlook on life, providing us with a completely … More Living in Duality
Question: Do you acknowledge both the good and bad in your life? Answer: Yes, or at least this is what I am learning how to do. Moreover we need to learn how to hold onto, assess both good and bad at the same time, as if holding two reins in our hands. Then in between … More Holding Two Reins: Putting The Good Against The Bad
Question: Do millionaires feel poor when they are next to billionaires? Answer: Yes, and this is very important! Whether we feel rich or poor doesn’t depends on what we have. It depends on how we compare to others! This comes from our inherently proud, self-justifying nature that ceaselessly tries to elevate the self-esteem, trying to … More Envious Progress
Question: What would it take to convince you that your entire life until now was an illusion? Answer: Personally, in my case you are already “banging on an open door”:) I am studying a unique, practical educational method that is first showing us the illusion, invalidity of our actual, inherent, subjective and egocentric perception of … More Living In An Illusory Matrix
Entering The Force-Field 