Question: What is the reason you realized you’re not a good person? Answer: In order to realize we are “not good persons” we need a brutally honest mirror that shows us our true nature. And this mirror is a purposefully organized, mutually supportive and mutually complementing environment, where we can remove all the masks, fake … More Self-Recognition
Question: What is something about your partner that you cannot stand? Answer: After 28 years of marriage I think I am “wise” enough not to answer the question directly. Instead I will regretfully “chicken out” from a direct answer, and give a “roundabout”, general answer instead, which answer might be helpful to others as well. … More Judging Through Love
Question: What is the easiest thing to do but the hardest to maintain? Answer: Love. It is easy to fall in love. The first “infatuation” is supported by hormones, instincts, environmental factors. But to maintain love, moreover to build a life long marriage on that first infatuation is very difficult. After all how is it … More Learning To Love Others
Question: There’s a lot of negativity in the world right now. What’s something good that’s happened to you recently? Answer: The good thing that happened to me recently is that I have learned why there is so much negativity in the world, and how we can solve it by rising above its root cause. There … More Standing At Crossroads
Question: What is everyone’s breaking point? Answer: Our breaking point is giving up, nullifying the “self”. We are all born with a completely self-serving, self-justifying and self-protective nature. The “sanctity” of this “inner self” overrides even our animate, physical survival reflex. We are ready to sacrifice our physical life to protect our honor, self-esteem, pride. … More Breaking Point
Question: If the saying, “happy wife, happy life” is true, why aren’t men nicer to women? Answer: Because today (and for quite a while now) we – neither men or women -do not receive any “education”, proper upbringing about how to build a happy marriage, how to properly set up and maintain families. And since … More Marital Education
Question: Do you feelwe all have freedom to make our own life choices and to live without the threat of violence? Answer: Violence is usually an instinctive, self-preserving reaction to real or presumed danger, threat. We act violently because we do not know who we are, where we are, what the purpose of our life … More Learning To Be Non-Violent
Question: What are some factors affecting human growth and development? Answer: The most important factor for Human growth and development is the unique Human ego. It is this irrepressible ego with its infinite desire for more that drives us towards exploration, creation, invention, competition. But without harnessing, channeling this ego it is self-destructive like cancerous … More Repairing The Human Growth Engine
Question: How would you live in a world without happiness? Answer: Please look around! Unfortunately right now we are living in a world that is devoid of “true happiness”. “True happiness” is a unique, positive, collective emotional impression. This impression is the consequence of purposefully, methodically built mutually supportive and mutually fulfilling Human interconnections. In … More In A World Without Happiness
Question: Why is it bad to find happiness from other people and not within yourself? Answer: I would say the opposite. It is not only “not bad” to find happiness from other people, but the only way to find happiness is from other people, in other people. The “pursuit of happiness” for the proud, modern … More A Different Pursuit Of Happiness
Entering The Force-Field 