Question: What are the top 3 things that’s important to have to have a healthy relationship with your life partner? Answer: 1.Mutual self-annulment towards one another. 2. Selfless, unconditional service of the desires, needs of the other, by setting reality through the viewpoint of the other. 3. Special education, upbringing which can purposefully, methodically, practically … More Conditions For A Healthy Relationship
Question: What will happen if there is no system such as marriage in the world? Answer: We are fast approaching this state. And we can see how our society is deteriorating since the fundamental corner stone of Human society is the classical family. We can understand why in our age – when our inherently self-serving, … More The “Sanctity” Of Marriage
Question: What do you think is the major mistake many people make when looking for a partner for a long-term relationship or marriage? Answer: Especially today, when we become completely obsessed with our external appearance, trying to augment our bodies, faces in any way we can, we search for partners only based on such external … More Building A Long Term Relationship
Question: What marriage values and principles are the most important to you? Answer: I think this is expressed most beautifully in the phrase, “Husband, Wife and the Divinity in between them”. A marriage is the most difficult thing in life. After all two, inherently proud, individualistic, 100% egotistic people make a pledge to stay together … More Perfect Marriage
Question: What changes occur or came to your life after your marriage? Answer: Marriage means a dramatic – one could say “brutal” – change in a person’s life. After all two inherently proudly egotistic, selfish, narcissistic and subjective people pledge to live together, make constant compromises, fundamentally change their lives in order to accommodate the … More The Significance Of Marriage
Question: Is marriage necessary in life? Why or why not? Answer: Yes, it is necessary. We can define marriage as a committed, “life long” partnership of two otherwise egotistic, individualistic people. Without such a mutually committed relationship we can never learn how to make true compromises and rise above our self-serving, self-justifying instincts. Without such … More The Covenant Of Marriage As A Tool Against Egoism
Question: What is something that’s underrated in this day and age? Answer: In this day and age, when only superficial, fake looks, actions are taken into consideration, when we measure everything through material possessions, through one’s monetary worth, the most underrated thing is “Human connection”. We think we connect through social media, that we have … More Let’s Micro-Date!… Really?!
Question: Did you realize shortly after getting married that you had made a huge mistake? What did you do? Answer: Fortunately I didn’t. But I am not sure how would one immediately realize such a “mistake”? After all “true love”, “sustainable love” is not immediate, it is not the “love at first sight/hormonal infatuation” poets … More Building Love In Marriage
Question: What is one thing you regret in your relationship? Answer: I regret that my inherently egoistic, selfish and hateful nature still gets the better of me, and I believe my subjective perception that always shows a negative picture, negative judgement of others – even the loved ones – thus I keep hurting them, causing … More Perfect Relationship – Where “I” Don’t Exist…
Question: For anyone who felt like they “settled” with someone, what led you to that point, and how did it turn out? Answer: I guess you mean with “being settled” that one manages to live with another person harmoniously, in a healthy, sustained relationship. I agree with you, this is not easy, especially in our … More Marriage Made In Heaven
Entering The Force-Field 