Question: How can I be happy? It seems that no matter what I change or do, I will never be happy. Answer: In order to be happy first we would need to know what true happiness is, what it results from. Although we are brought up, educated to search for, crave individual contentment, happiness, true … More The Happiness Of Giving
Question: Does the pursuit of pleasure give you a good life? Answer: Not until now. The more pleasures I tried to accumulate, grab for myself, the emptier, less satisfied I felt, feel myself. And judging by what I see around the world in others – the general emptiness, depression spreading like plague despite seemingly having … More Learning How To Receive Infinite Pleasures
Question: Is there one memory that you use to compare what happiness is “supposed” to feel like to you? Answer: I try to use one “memory” I do not actively remember: being in the mother’s womb. There is no more perfect, blissful state than being instantly, perfectly unquestionably cared for without the need to ask. … More Building Society On The Best “Memory”
Question: How do I build self esteem as an adult? Answer: Since we are the product of our environment, since – despite being born with inherently self-serving, self-justifying nature – we still need the approval, respect from our environment, we can build a healthy self-esteem by entering the right, purposeful, mutually supportive and mutually complementing … More The High Self-Esteem Of Perfect Cogwheel
Question: Which is correct:” Practice makes perfect” OR ” Practice makes perfection?” Answer: I would slightly combine, modify those two: “One who practices perfection, becomes perfect” In other words if we start practicing, “play acting” perfection – a next, a more desirable, more optimal developmental state that looks from our point of view as perfect … More The Practice That Makes You Perfect…
Question: Does perfection exist? If so, where? Answer: We are surrounded by absolute perfection, we exist in a Natural system that is utterly perfect, governed by a predetermined, intelligent evolutionary plan that leads everything to the most optimal final state. But we are completely unaware of this as our inherently self-obsessed, egoistic, subjective consciousness and … More Seeing Perfection
Question: Is everything comparable? Answer: Yes. Without comparative research, without seeing contrasts we would have no chance of perceiving reality. Even absolute perfection, absolute beauty, absolute truth needs to be compared to, contrasted with its opposite. This explains why Human beings – the only living creatures in reality with the conscious ability to perceive, attain … More How To Measure Perfection?