Cost Of Loving – Assessed Differently

Question: What are the cost of living? Answer: I would like to examine the question of “cost of living” differently, considering the fully integrated, interdependent world we evolved into. The average – non-material – cost of living is how much I am capable of annulling myself, my inherently self-serving, self-justifying, subjective nature towards others. In … More Cost Of Loving – Assessed Differently

Mundane And Non-Mundane Life

Question: What’s the most mundane life experience you’ve endured? Answer: I would call “mundane” all our life experiences that fall within the category of simply “flowing with life”. In other words “mundane” is everything we do under the governance of our inherently self-centered, self-serving, introverted and subjective nature. While we remain within our instinctive aspirations, … More Mundane And Non-Mundane Life

One Needs To Know Justice In Order To See Injustice

Question: To experience injustice, is it necessary to know what is right? Answer: I would think so. After all how can we identify injustice without knowing what justice is? Unfortunately in our artificial Human bubble we have been building for centuries we developed the notion that we can simply decide things arbitrarily, based on our … More One Needs To Know Justice In Order To See Injustice

Burning Shame

Question: Why we would prefer to have nothing rather than an unfair share? What is the psychology behind it? Answer: I would refine the question saying, “Why we would prefer to have nothing, rather than an unfair share, if others know that we obtained that share unfairly?” We would prefer nothing to unfair share due … More Burning Shame

Becoming A Mind Reader

Question: Do you ever wish you could read other peoples minds or would you regret knowing what others truly think of you? Answer: I am actually purposefully, methodically learning how to “read other people’s mind”, more precisely to make calculations, act based on the desires, thoughts, aspirations of others. Only in this way can I … More Becoming A Mind Reader

“Self-Improvement” With The Help Of Others

Question: How do you improve if your problem is that self-improvement never works for you? Answer: I agree with you, despite all the claims otherwise “self-improvement” is an oxymoron. After all how could we “pull ourselves up by pulling our own hair”?! If we remain within ourselves we are simply running in never ending circles, … More “Self-Improvement” With The Help Of Others