The Egoist Altruist

Question: Is there something you’ve changed about yourself that makes other people happy but not you? Answer: This is a very important question as it goes deep into what we are expected to do! We are all born with an inherently self-serving, self-justifying nature. We can do calculations only for our own sake by default. … More The Egoist Altruist

Facing The Truth

Question: What was the most intense fundamental truth you’ve had to come to terms with about yourself in life and how did it shape your future? Answer: The most fundamental – and most unpleasant – truth I had to come to terms with about myself is that I am a 100% selfish, egoist, that is … More Facing The Truth

First Do No Harm!

Question: What can you teach me right now, that if applied or used correctly can change my life within the next 6 months? Answer: While I do not claim to be even close to “Old Hillel”, I would give you the same advice to “changing life”, what he gave to the student who wanted to … More First Do No Harm!

It’s All Wrong!

Question: Is there something in your life that you have been wrong about and when you realized it, it changed your life? Answer: Yes. I realized that I was wrong about everything. I am not joking. After starting to study the scientific method of Kabbalah – which gradually lays bare our true, inner nature – … More It’s All Wrong!

The Difficulty In Building Relationships

Question: I am satisfied in everything except relationships. How could that be? Answer: Building the right connections, relationship to others is the most difficult thing in the world. We are all born with an inherently self-centered, self-justifying, egoistic and subjective nature. With the help of this nature – if we are strong, skillful enough – … More The Difficulty In Building Relationships

Making Our Heart Sing

Question: Why do we avoid getting real with ourselves and discovering what would truly make our hearts sing? Answer: We are instinctively afraid of what we find “inside”. We suspect – although avoid to recognize – that we are all driven by an egoistic, selfish and hateful “monster” inside. Thus we collectively, shrewdly invented different … More Making Our Heart Sing