Question: What is something about your partner that you cannot stand? Answer: After 28 years of marriage I think I am “wise” enough not to answer the question directly. Instead I will regretfully “chicken out” from a direct answer, and give a “roundabout”, general answer instead, which answer might be helpful to others as well. … More Judging Through Love
Question: What is that one thing that, if taken from you, would take away the meaning of your life? Answer: The answer to this question is the greatest paradox of Human existence. The one thing we can’t let go of, we can’t give up is our “self”, the self-esteem, self-importance, self-honor which is so precious … More Losing My Self
Question: What is something that you would gladly overpay for? Answer: It depends on importance. Anybody would “overpay” for something that is the most important thing in one’s life. And since we receive values, importance, goals from the environment we exist in, what we would overpay for also depends on the environment. Whatever is “in … More Happily Paying Extra For Friendship
Question: What is the easiest thing to do but the hardest to maintain? Answer: Love. It is easy to fall in love. The first “infatuation” is supported by hormones, instincts, environmental factors. But to maintain love, moreover to build a life long marriage on that first infatuation is very difficult. After all how is it … More Learning To Love Others
Question: Why is love so beautiful? Answer: Love is beautiful because reality was built on “love”. Love is the only state, intention, natural process which can create, sustain and nurture life. Of course this “beautiful love” has to be “true love”, not the usual “fish love” we consider love today. “Fish love” means that “I … More Beautiful Love
Question: If the saying, “happy wife, happy life” is true, why aren’t men nicer to women? Answer: Because today (and for quite a while now) we – neither men or women -do not receive any “education”, proper upbringing about how to build a happy marriage, how to properly set up and maintain families. And since … More Marital Education
Question: Is it better to sleepwalk through life to avoid constant pain and bitterness, or to deal with it turning out to be nothing like you’d hoped or dreamed? Answer: Sleepwalking through life, hoping to avoid pain and bitterness makes us “zombies” who have no taste in life. Although pain and bitterness is unpleasant when … More Sleepwalking, Or Tasting Life?
Question: How does Judaism impact our modern society? Answer: Judaism has been having an enormous impact on Humanity, influencing all levels of Human activity in religion, spirituality, culture, technology, morality, medical sciences, social ideology, etc. But the most important,practical influence is still to come. As the global world is sinking into a deepening, seemingly unsolvable … More The Jewish Method
Question: If money doesn’t buy happiness, what does? Answer: In order to answer this question first we need to find the right definition for happiness. “True happiness” is not an individual sensation, state, but it is a unique, positive,mutual emotional impression. True happiness is when I become capable of being happy for the happiness, fulfillment … More How Do We Buy Happiness?!
Question: What is your definition of happiness? Mine is the avoidance/prevention of sadness. Answer: We could say that you definition is the first step towards true happiness. We are relatively simple creatures, our whole life is built on a egocentric “pleasure/pain calculation “ based operating software. Escaping pain, avoiding darkness, depression unhappiness is one step … More Definition Of Happiness
Entering The Force-Field 